Why we love Dad
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Dad was there. I don't mean "there at my games or piano recitals" or whatever. That is NOT IMPORTANT. It's the most idiotic story every TV show and movie loves to dramatize but KIDS DON'T GIVE A P00P. Dad was there to guide me in what's important about being a man.
More love for Dad
- He worked two jobs for years and I never once heard him complain. I found out from Mom, decades later. That's the kind of man he was - the kind I'm still trying to be.
- My dad learned to braid hair from a YouTube video when Mom was in the hospital. Three girls showed up to school every morning looking perfect. We never told her.
- Every time I back out of a driveway I hear him: mirrors, then over your shoulder. He's been gone six years and he still keeps me safe.
- He never said 'I love you.' He said 'text me when you land.' Same thing.